He's just not that into you

To me and my girls, it's just that simple. 

1. He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out

2. He's just not that into you if he's not calling you

3. He's just not that into you if he's not dating you

4. He's just not that into you if he's not having sex with you

5. He's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else

6. He's just not that into you if he only wants to see you when he's drunk

7. He's just not that into you if he doesn't want to marry you

8. He's just not that into you if he's breaking up with you

9. He's just not that into you if he's disappeared on you

10. He's just not that into you if he's married (and other insane variations of being unavailable)

11. He's just not that into you if he's a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak.

1. I will not go out with a man who hasn’t asked me out first.

2. I will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone.

3. I will not date a man who isn’t sure he wants to date me.

4. I will not date a man who makes me feel sexually undesirable.

5. I will not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me uncomfortable.

6. I will not be with a man who’s afraid to talk about our future.

7. I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me.

8. I will not date a man who is married.

9. I will not be with a man who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person.